“A person who is perfectly suited to another in temperament” is how Merriam-Webster Dictionary decides to put the definition of Soulmate. Well, good for them🤷‍♀️.

I watched Four to Dinner👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾 few weeks ago and it just reminded me how often people talk about soulmates, and how I was to a large extent still undecisive of my stance on the whole subject matter🤥.

I took a closer look on the already existing ideas in my brain and I realised how vague there were😬. Being someone who likes to take a stance on issues👀, I didn’t like how that made me feel, so I decided to look and think deeper about it. After much gbas gbos🤪, I came to a conclusion😉.

There are over seven billion people in the world and it’s quite unsettling to believe that there’s only one person that is “perfect” for you, only one person right for you🙄. Mbanu! I no gree🙅‍♂️.

I am a Christian, and I know a few persons in the Bible who were married to more than one woman👩‍🦰- Solomon, Jacob, etcetera. Inasmuch as I do not support polygamy, I believe that it is indeed a reflection of the fact that you are compatible with a good number of people or even many, just like in the case of brother Solomon- my guy wasn’t dulling sha…!🙃😂. However, I believe compatibility varies- more with some and less with others👇.

This has brought me to the conclusion that there are many people one can be comfortably married to, as there are people who are better for us than others; those with whom we are at our best🏋- may be this is what people refer to as your soulmate🤔.

The fact that the definition of Soulmate doesn’t give room for the possibility of being happy and compatible with other people besides “that one person”, makes the Soulmate Concept a full blown fantasy to me😬.

If you’re a Christian like me, you may also believe in trusting God to direct you to the best person for you👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾, not necessarily the only person for you.

Are you looking for A Soulmate Or Yours?🤔

I have shared my opinion with you, what’s yours? Share in the comment section below. Gracias❤.